Monday, June 14, 2010

Have patience . . .

"Patience is necessary, and one cannot reap immediately where one has sown." ~ Soren Kierkegaarde

"Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions." ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

"The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it." ~ Arnold H Glasgow

"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself." ~ St Francis de Sales

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Know your own worth

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha

"Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are." ~ Malcolm S. Forbes

"The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others." ~ Sonya Friedman

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Organize Your Vital Documents

Location list of records
This short index is easy to create. Open each file drawer (or box) where you keep records, and list the contents. Example: top drawer of the black filing cabinet—car records, club memberships, employment info, insurance policies. Green box under the guest room bed—medical records, mortgage, tax records. Bowl on top of the refrigerator—warranties and paid bills.

Use this worksheet to help organize your important papers.

Photocopies of what's in your wallet
Once a year, make a copy of all the credit and ID cards you carry around. Place as many cards as will fit on the screen, photocopy, then flip the cards over and do the other side. Don't forget medical insurance, voter registration and health club membership cards. If your wallet ever disappears, here are some numbers that will come in handy:

Master list of all your accounts
(Savings, checking and credit card, as well as investment and insurance records)
Millions of dollars go unclaimed every year because people lose track of their holdings. Remember that insurance policy you bought in college? Hey, you could have money coming to you! Write down every bank, credit card, investment and insurance account you have. For each, list the institution, type of account (checking? money market?), owner or policyholder (you? you and a relative?), account number and contact information. Add frequent flier accounts, computer access codes and any other key passwords to this document.

Use this master list worksheet to keep track of all your accounts.

Safe-deposit-box inventory
Make a list of all the irreplaceables (jewelry, photo negatives, heirlooms) as well as the critical documents (marriage license, birth certificate, stocks and bonds) that you've stored under lock and key. Photocopy the documents for your household files.

Once you've completed your Vital Documents Map, store a copy in three different places: (1) in a clearly marked folder in your home or office (2) with your attorney, a close friend, or a family member who doesn't live with you and (3) in your safe-deposit box.